While talking to the Chinese agent, the American learned that the Chinese counterparts’ goals were different. He realized that the Chinese company wanted to use the meetings to help build personal ties among them. They were upset that the American was focused solely on business rather than personal matters and was asking aggressive questions. He also found out that the top Chinese executive had no interest in sharing decision making with anyone; instead, he wanted to use private lunches and dinners with the head of the American delegation to make serious decisions and reach agreements.
To ensure effective communication between a high and low-context culture, there is a need to first understand the cultural differences. The Chinese culture emphasizes on group performance and rewards while the Americans highlight individual achievements and rewards. They also express pride, loyalty and cohesiveness in their organizations and families. The Chinese highly judge building personal ties and relationships because the Chinese culture is influenced by Confucian ideas which emphasize the importance of relationships and community.
To ensure effective communication, the American has to be careful about how his behavior and manners are perceived by the Chinese. Consciously or unconsciously other people will be using their belief and value system to judge the American, and hence it is crucial for him to ferret out their values and be able to see his own culture through the eyes of his counterparts. He should be polite, considerate, and sensitive to times when he should discuss deals and times when he should strengthen friendships. As the saying goes, ’When in Rome, do as the Romans do.’ He would have to go about building personal ties and relationships with a wide network of individuals and groups. Lastly, he would have to ensure his natural American assertiveness does not turn his Chinese counterparts off and does not hinder his efforts at building strong relationships.
So Phelps, after clinching eight gold medals in Beijing, you should know what to look out for when discussing a sponsorship contract with the Chinese, don’t you?
Figure: If we can all make an effort to understand each other and establish a common purpose, intercultural communication would be easier for everyone.